Good morning friends. Sorry I've been a little absent lately. The days have just gotten away from me and this past weekend we took off. Before we even moved here I knew I wanted this to be the weekend that we went to the beach. Today is our anniversary!! 19 years ago...at age 19 we said I do and started on the ultimate adventure together.
For some reason when I woke up this morning I had the same knots in my stomach that I did all those years ago on our wedding day. I'll never forget spending the night in our unlived in apartment. My mom stayed with me. I woke up sick with nerves. She ran to the drugstore to try and find a cure to save me from myself, and while I took a shower I pleaded with God to take over my body. Right there in the shower I had the most amazing presence come over me. It was truly divine intervention. There was a covering of peace, just like that shower spray that saturated me from head to toe, and it carried me throughout that blissful day. So grateful that He carries us when we need it most.

I'm still pinching myself that we live only two hours from the coast. It was amazing to pack a light bag, jump in the car and be transported to another place. We really needed a break. We've been a little stressed trying to mentally adjust to everything...add unpacking, hanging curtains and pictures every night and it was time for a little break.
It was so nice to see the girls having fun. I've been feeling a little guilty. We really haven't done very many fun things this summer. The move took over a bit, and with school starting in a month it was nice to see them romp in the sand and explore.
There is nothing quite like having soft sand between your toes, feeling the sun's warmth and a refreshing breeze...hearing the roar of the ocean waves...all at once. It's the ultimate stroke to the senses. Add people watching to the mix and I'm in heaven.
I've decided by the way that I think I need a surfboard;) I would never dream of actually using it, but just walking up and down the beach carrying it would be pretty darn cool. Who doesn't look awesome carrying a surf board??
Our hotel was very dated and overpriced. We stayed at the Cavalier on Virginia Beach. Beggars can't be choosy when you book the room 4 days before you go. Despite the outdated furniture and bedding we had amazing views and we were way down the boardwalk away from the crowds. And boy was it crowded...oh and the bumper to bumper traffic from Richmond to the beach was definitely unexpected. Not sure if that's a weekend thing or we just took a wrong route. Might have to rethink that next time.
I didn't realize Virginia Beach was so much fun. There were street performers on every block...bands, musicians, puppet shows etc... I was pleasantly surprised. We ate at two really good restaurants. Tautog's for dinner..great beachy atmosphere. Then Pocahontas Pancakes for breakfast. Fun! I can see us coming back and revisiting those places.

It was good, every salty sea breath, every second in the car, every minute we got to spend together, whether it's perfect or not...it's good. We made another stroke on our canvas of life. I love how memories do that. They splash together and meld into a wonderful colorful masterpiece. Who would have thought all those years ago as I prepared for my wedding day that this would be my life now? Living in Virginia. Still madly in love. Blessed with my girlies. That peace that came over me and carried me then...is still carrying me now. How sweet is that!
Have a blessed day.























congratulations!!!
ReplyDelete2 hours from the shore. i wish!
the beach pics are so fun & yes, you need a board!
xo
Oh Becky....this was so lovely...you always make me feel like Im right there with you while you share your heart.
ReplyDeleteLove that!
What a fun weekend you had and added to your wonderful treasury of memories.
Happy anniversary to you and hubby..you look so beautiful together and your love for each other shines through!!
Blessings to you both and to the 2 sweet jewels your love created. He has poured His Sonshine on your lives and your lives are a light to many.
Love you sweet friend xoxoxo
Deborah xoxoxoox
Your last paragraph gave me goosebumps. In a world where divorce is the norm, you and your honey have become above the norm and are still going strong. Encouraging, inspiring, and gives me incredible hope that TRUE LOVE really DOES exist. :) Happy Anniversary!
ReplyDeleteGlad you had a great time. Happy Anniversary!
ReplyDeleteCongrats on 19 years! And God's blessings for many decades more. :)
ReplyDeleteHow fun it must be to be so close to the ocean! Being in central Iowa, most of the lakes/beaches are man-made.
And let me just say, you have a way with words! Not only are you an artist in the painting area, but also with words.
:)
How great! Happy Anniversary. God is good for sure. Glad you had a fun get away. Praying here for you all. xoxo
ReplyDeletecongrats on #19! looks like you all had a great time! i'd love to live that close to the coast - you are blessed. :)
ReplyDeletewe are planning for a special anniversary celebration next year. we were married on aug 12th, so we'll be celebrating 12 years of marriage on the 12th in 2012!
Happy Anniversary! I love the shadows-on-the-sand shot!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on 19 blissful years! May you have many many many more blessed anniversaries! And I happen to think 19 is the best age to wed. My grandma, my mother and I all did! : )
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy you could pack up and head to the beach quickly! Your pictures capture the sweetness of your weekend so well!!!
Genius words, you saying "We made another stroke on our canvas of life" I love that! Gorgeous pictures of your wonderful day at the beach!
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary!
Meg
Congratulations. 19 years and a beautiful family. Glad you took the chance to get away and get refreshed. Have a good week.
ReplyDeleteAwesome post. Congrats on 19 years. There is something just calming about the beach! So glad you got away for a bit. Have a blessed week :)
ReplyDeletewow, 19! at this age now that sounds soo young but you obviously made the right choice! happy anniversary! sounds like a fun weekend and being just two hours from the beach sounds just heavenly to me..i could totally handle that.
ReplyDeleteoh...so heartsick for the beach. love the beach. love. love.
ReplyDeletebut Happy Happy Anniversary to you guys!! Love you :)
Congrats!! you have a beautiful family! and I am so glad that you got away from your unpacking and getting settled to have some fun! I was married at age 19 as well,,,,,for Darrell and I it is now 26 years later!! WOW where has the time gone! You take wonderful pictures Becky....I would love to see some of that shoreline in person!! One day....have a great day and happy Monday!
ReplyDeleteI am so glad you had a little break : )
ReplyDeleteThe girls are the most beautiful things. They make my heart happy!
Praying for a peace filled week!
Have fun! Life is short. The picture hanging can wait.
Happy 19! I celebrated 17 this summer with my high school sweetheart! I found your blog (as you were moving) and have been touched by your writing. Your courage and trust is amazing to me as I've been struggling recently with fears and doubt.
ReplyDeleteThat PEACE is pretty dern SWEET! I'm picturing one set of foot prints in the sand with Jesus caring you! ;)
ReplyDeleteWe were babies who married at 19 too! Who says ya' can't make it when ya' marry young??? We showed them!!! hehe :)
Rebecca
Ohh...Happy Anniversary too!
ReplyDeleteLOVE VABch. I always thought we would retire there, but I don't think this will happen now. LOVE walking the boardwalk. LOVE living near the beach. I'm glad you are adjusting and finding the FUN.
ReplyDeleteOh beautiful! Congratulations on 19! My man and I just celebrated 21 and I feel the same way! What a beautiful post!
ReplyDeleteOh.. Happy Anniversary. wow. Mine was yesterday. 29 years. :)
ReplyDeleteFirst of all congratulations on 19 years. We were also 19 when we got married.
ReplyDeleteLove the pictures and the peace in your words. Just the break you needed. I would love to live that close to the beach.
Happy Anniversary!! Congratulations on 19 years!! That's awesome :)
ReplyDeleteThe beach sounds like so much fun. Glad you had the chance to make those memories!
XOXO,
Angie
I was high up on a mountain top when I got all your text msgs about the beach and forgot to text you back til just now! That's it... I'm coming to stay with you. I can not WAIT to visit. Please please please take me to the beach when I come. Man I need that sand in my toes even if it's winter time. I love exploring a new place through your eyes and your words were so beautiful, your photos were gorgeous and Happy ANNIVERSARY to you both. What a fun way to spend it. Love you so girly!!
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary! It looked like a wonderful day. :-)
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary!! What a fun lookin' weekend.
ReplyDelete♥ H A P P Y A N N I V E R S A R Y ! ♥
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful way to spend it! Good to get away and just 'be' for a while! God bless you even more in the next 19!!!! ♥
Didn't I tell you:-) I knew you would love being that close to the beach. Lissa may be booking her flight to see you right now:-) Great photos and you look beautiful!
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary! We celebrated 10 last week. :) If you are on I-95 at all in the Richmond-DC corridor on the weekends (pretty much any weekend) you're guaranteed to sit in traffic. We had to get off and take the back roads down to the beach in NC a few weeks ago. Nothing is *more fun* than sitting in VA traffic. ;)
ReplyDeletehappy anniversary!
ReplyDeletei love love love your blog. i have no idea how i winded up here. well i sort of do. i had been trying to leave a comment on suzanne's blog for 10 minutes with no luck. just frozen. then i saw 'farmgirl paints' in that comment section and felt led. i like farmgirls. i like paint. and now there is a new blogger to like.
i'm a mom, writer, and artist living in illinois in a sleepy little town. come visit me at hello lovely anytime!
michele
Oh wow, Becky. This is gorgeous!! When Sasha comes, can I come too? :) lol
ReplyDeleteI'm catching up with the rest of your blogs right now...so excited!! Oh, and I know just how you feel about the guilt of not doing lots of fun things...we were there last summer and now again, this summer. Too much moving. But I really think the fun things we DID do went far... this trip is going to stay with your girls!!! And happy anniversary!!
What a wonderful memory you were able to make for you and your family! Thanks for sharing. A lovely farewell to summer.
ReplyDelete19 years what a true blassing! Congratulations!!!! The different roads we have totravel in life can be rough and stir up all of our insecurities and anxieties but oh the joy of having someone to walk those roads with.you and the hubby are such a sweet couple and your girls complete your beautiful family.as scary as life can be you sure are blessed to have the lovely family you do.
ReplyDeleteHappy, Happy Anniversary! 19 years - how beautiful! :) Thank you for sharing your pics from the beach. I grew up in a beach city...so seeing the beach always brings happy memories.
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary- 19 years that is awesome!! And what a beautiful family- it's funny I have only been following for a couple of years, but I already see how your girls are growing up and becoming such young beautiful women! Glad you had some time to getaway!
ReplyDeleteHappy Happy Anniversary to you! Each one is to be celebrated well.
ReplyDeleteSo glad you got away and had some fun! Happy Anniversary!!
ReplyDeleteKat :)
YUM. The shore. You are so adorable. So photogenic! Love the toes shot.
ReplyDeletexo, Cheryl
What a lovely post! and congrats on your Anniversary! You have two of the sweetest little girls, I love their freckles! I am glad that you all got to get away and relax a bit!
ReplyDeleteLove seeing you
ReplyDeleteall so shiny, fresh
and happy!
xx Suzanne
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!! next year is the big 2-0!! Wow! Glad you had so much fun!! I think I would LOVE it there! Let's go!! And guess what?:? I think we're going to el camino tonight. I kind of think of that as our place! love ya girl!
ReplyDeleteGorgeous photos Becky, you have a beautiful family and you have the most lovely smile ever, it truly lights up your face :)
ReplyDeleteYour comment about the surfboard really made me laugh...that would be me too, having a surfboard just to carry to the ocean and back!!
Happy Anniversary sweetie xx
PS Loving reading about your move, can feel how hard it is for you, hang in there, it'll get better xx
Happy Anniversary sweet sweet Becky!! What a great week-end ~ there is nothing like sand between your toes is there?? Loving your pictures ~ especially the shawdow one on the sand ~ you are brilliant! Funny that I just posted about my wedding day morning but I was a little older too ~ maybe that was the difference. Hugs to you my friend. xo
ReplyDeleteYou made me cry. Seriously.
ReplyDeleteCongrats and Happy Anniversary!
I kept checking to see if there was a new post all weekend.... When I did not see one I just knew you all went to the beach!!
ReplyDeleteGreat to see you are finding your way around here!!
(yes...always traffic going to Va beach from Richmond.... You need to leave VERY early in the a.m... It's always worth it:)
Hugs!
Beth
congratulations to you!!
ReplyDeleteso glad you all escaped to have some fun!
beautiful photos~
look at you two love birds...still adorable after 19 years! whoo hoo:)
ReplyDeletelove to see your brushstroke...one at a time and this time next year...the girls looked so peaceful and I pray it did your heart good to step back and enjoy. Love ya...will keep praying.
xo
wow ~ you are about as close as I am to the Oregon Coast it is about 1 1/2 hours or longer depending on the location. I loved your black top is that a swim suit? I would wear that maybe...haven't owned a swimsuit for 35 or more years. Someday we want to go to the Virginia area maybe we will meet. take care and keep having fun.
ReplyDeleteJust found your blog- I've lived in Va all my life and YES traffic will be like that from fri- sun every weekend until after labor day!
ReplyDeleteWelcome to Va!
Love your post Becky. Congrats on being married for 19 years...love to hear that!
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary to YOU!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on 19 years and thank you for being such a wonderful example of marriage!
You've planted the seed in my head now.
We haven't made it to the beach yet either and we are only 2 hrs as well.
So I think once I know school is in session Bud & I will have to head out there to at least get our toes in the sand :)
Have a Blessed Week!
Biz
Congrats top you and honey on your 19 years of painting brush strokes together on your canvas. Your written words along with your beautiful photographs have a way of allowing each of your readers to experience your lifes journey (brush strokes) right along with your family. What a gift to us, to share such intimate moments. It truly makes me feel look e I've known you all your life, when in fact out was just last Fall at the JB that I ever even first saw you.
ReplyDeleteGlad to near and see that sparkle in your eye coming back to you. There is a divine plan going on here.... Out must hasn't all been revealed to you yet. Keep the faith, stay in His foot steps and don't wander of the trail. You will continue to be blessed-
Love your photo's and how creative you've become in this past year while perfecting your live of family through photography. Sneak back 1 year in time and see how far you're skills have come. Truly amazing.
Gretchen
19.
ReplyDeleteamazing.
God is good.
so glad you guys got away and had some fun together as a family......
when we KNOW that God is with us, we can come through anything.
Hi Becky,
ReplyDeleteI have just managed to find a solution as to why I am struggling to leave comments on certain blogs, including my own!!...have tried numerous times to leave comments here too....your photo's are lovely. Congratulations on reaching this amazing place in your journey together! Your new home looks wonderful; been meaning to say I often find comfort in the words: there are no endings, only new beginnings....so many exciting new beginnings for you and your family! x
Other beaches on other coasts amaze me. I've never seen beaches backed up to grass like that. What fun!
ReplyDelete2 hours from the beach! Woo Hoo! I would love that. I'm so glad you all got away for some fun together. It's amazing how much getting away even for a day and doing something fun can re-energize a person. I love the beach photo of you and your hubby. Congratulations on 19 years and still madly in love. It shows on your faces and in your life.
ReplyDelete♥Lee Ann