tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post3654248815761725740..comments2023-10-25T12:01:07.964-04:00Comments on Farmgirl Paints: botox, measuring up and turkey meatloafFarmgirl Paintshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17205054615599523192noreply@blogger.comBlogger48125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-40872756740478255162012-06-26T17:43:41.381-04:002012-06-26T17:43:41.381-04:00well BOOM BOOM POW! I so agree with you. I was act...well BOOM BOOM POW! I so agree with you. I was actually going to, and still am, write a post about "how my life appears" because so many people have said that to me too since blogging that I'm "so lucky" or "so blessed" because of travel or whatever...but they see just the tip of the iceberg, just like they are seeing with you! of course i'm gonna share my travels etc and certain fun, relaxing times, but that doesn't mean my life is easy breezy and that's who I AM. <br /><br />I think we do though instinctually compare our blogs to others..I use to, I don't really anymore because I have accepted the gifts that God has given only to me to share and to use for His glory and that's what I'm doing. For so long I tried to be this this or this woman, and I wished my gifts were different...but NOT ANYMORE!!! I can grow and evolve and learn and that's good, that's OK--I accept where God is using me! <br />But when I first saw you and your blog on Life Made Lovely, I thought the same thing about your blog--not about you, cuz I could tell you were down to earth and cool , but about how amazing your work is and your blog!!! So I can see what your friend is saying---I hope she gave you her blog address now :)<br />thanks for writing this great great post!Contemplating Beautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09808854805547064281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-15845836972163300802012-06-25T22:07:46.029-04:002012-06-25T22:07:46.029-04:00Becky oh special Becky...don't you ever change...Becky oh special Becky...don't you ever change...I love the real Y♥U, especially because you share with us your struggles and then come out thankful in the end because you know the ONE upstairs who can give joy when going through trials and in spite of whatever you are going through. You are almost young enough to be my daughter, and yet I have learned from you and have been blessed by your realness and faith so many times. I have never ever thought of you as one bit intimidating. I think because you have a heart that wants to help others, that God blesses your heart and words as you write on our blog. That naturally shines through as happy! <br /><br />Hope you are having fun being with your mom and dad. Come back and show us pictures!!!<br /><br />Keep being beautiful Y♥U!<br />♥Lee AnnLeeAnn@Encouragement Is Contagioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11115472068334541489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-71644899399347185192012-06-25T07:22:41.238-04:002012-06-25T07:22:41.238-04:00Hi Becky - just wanted to stop and say Hi....hope ...Hi Becky - just wanted to stop and say Hi....hope you are doing well - and so sorry to hear you were batteling with depression - I know someone who is going through that severly right now (she has help)<br /><br />xo+blessings,<br />Anne MarieAnne Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11570313791042086593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-60818908650921259592012-06-23T20:22:40.087-04:002012-06-23T20:22:40.087-04:00Ok Becky, here I am. I wasn't ready either to ...Ok Becky, here I am. I wasn't ready either to share my blog because even though I am not new to blogworld (as I have another blog that has been going since 2009, my newest blog is a bit melancholy and not attractive like yours and many others. Comparison that darn thief of joy ...haha. I love how you supported your friend. Many years ago when I was working and money was not object, I too had Botox injected between my eyes and on my forehead. I loooooved it. I looked so much more refreshed and a lot younger. Now that I am walking with the Lord I am trying hard to embrace growing old gracefully, but admittantly if a doctor offered to do it for free...I would be first in line.engineer's wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04444971415020522685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-71318608489703786002012-06-23T15:12:04.668-04:002012-06-23T15:12:04.668-04:00I have been guilty of comparing myself to other bl...I have been guilty of comparing myself to other bloggers and people on facebook and I've heard the same about people thinking I've got it all together...because I don't say when I don't. It's hard in this digital age because even when we set out to be real it's not the same as face to face real allowing the conversation to flow real. I'm trying to get back into blogging after a loooong time away. I'm trying to publish a book and honestly I needed to get away from comparisons that I couldn't seem to get away from. I've missed your blog though and I'm happy to be reading again:)<br /><br />And THANK YOU for the recipe...we're trying to be wheat free as much as possible and I'm so trying this meatloaf recipe in the next couple of days. <br /><br />AND I never thought I would, but I am wishing I had the money for botox;) My mother was right when she said "You make that face long enough and it will get stuck that way"...hahaha! No more scowling, stressing and squinting for me!Jewelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03535953637006178912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-2871001615784002112012-06-21T12:02:38.232-04:002012-06-21T12:02:38.232-04:00I miss you. Come back soon!! :)I miss you. Come back soon!! :)Lemonade Makin' Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16404173701815078504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-47212471060573595512012-06-19T15:11:56.817-04:002012-06-19T15:11:56.817-04:00Its true Becky...we as women do do that, don't...Its true Becky...we as women do do that, don't we? <br />I like a quote I recently read that Bill Johnson wrote and I've been letting it sink in..deep inside.<br /><br />"I cannot afford to have a thought in my head about me that is not in His"<br /><br />His thoughts of me/us are all that really matter.<br />I'm asking my Lord to help me grow and walk in this truth. \0/<br /><br />That meatloaf recipe sounds very close to my recipe, which was originally my Mommas and the one we grew up eating!<br />Yummy! We all love the sauce too!Our sauce consists of ketchup, brown sugar and a bit of dry mustard.<br /><br />Well happy day to you and have a wonderful time sweet friend!<br />Always a pleasure visiting you!<br />Hugs from me to you xo<br /><br />Much love,<br />Deborah xoxoDeborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08074929118510385042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-42119825519299207582012-06-19T14:56:25.608-04:002012-06-19T14:56:25.608-04:00I just dumped all my words into a blog post, so do...I just dumped all my words into a blog post, so don't have a lot left at the moment, but wanted to say I LOVE THIS POST! I'm with you and for you! Thanks for sharing! <br /><br />xo,<br />LinseyBravehearted Beauty {formerly LLH Designs}https://www.blogger.com/profile/04065147598634454504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-4000492009072273702012-06-18T16:36:30.294-04:002012-06-18T16:36:30.294-04:00I had to laugh when I saw the doc's forehead! ...I had to laugh when I saw the doc's forehead! And then I laughed again when you said your friend admitted she had a blog. I am always hesitant to tell people because so many don't get it, but then there are so many that do. We all blog for various reasons. Some of us put it all out there, good and bad. I tend to focus on the happier aspects of my life because I have enough bad stuff going on, just as we all do. My blog is my escape and my way of feeling gratitude for the good things I do have and experience. Once in awhile I will get emotional and put out a angsty blog, but it's not my norm.<br /><br />Hope your trip was wonderful and I don't comment on your blog too often because, well, I'm intimidated too sometimes, but I really like how you keep it real and I can always feel your love for your family. (run on sentence!) AnnThe Boston Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16211110867604264641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-58581195330844006052012-06-17T21:41:12.088-04:002012-06-17T21:41:12.088-04:00and love that summer board you made for the girls ...and love that summer board you made for the girls ~ you are so smart! xoLorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00933214618325580791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-29425256393752833912012-06-17T21:39:31.314-04:002012-06-17T21:39:31.314-04:00It's sweet and sad at the same time Becky. We...It's sweet and sad at the same time Becky. We all try to portray the good in our lives and not all the downs because seriously ~ I can get down enough on my own ~ I really don't need help in that department! We all have our struggles ~ I know you have too. I think I am rambling... I would love to read Joannie's blog so if you pry it out of her please let me know! I don't think I would ever do the botox thing ~ just call me chicken! Have a blast in IL. xoLorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00933214618325580791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-73275123418787338952012-06-17T10:48:26.920-04:002012-06-17T10:48:26.920-04:00Oh, sweet Becky. I love that this post went from ...Oh, sweet Becky. I love that this post went from Botox to blogging to depression to meatloaf. isn't that just life?<br /><br />Thank you for being real about your struggles. I feel that way too! The few times I've done a gut wrenching honest post, the feedback has been amazing and so supportive. I think there are many women struggling. Many Christian women struggling which piles on the guilt and shame. <br /><br />i am just re-reading Grace for the Good Girl. So refreshing. So, so refreshing. The author has started an online book club as well. The community and outpouring of support has been amazing. So freeing to not be "on" and "fine" all the time. Ahhhh... she's having a meet up of readers in greensboro in August. Can't you just see a room full of "good girls"??? All trying to out "good" each other? I think it will be freeing and fun and worship-filled as we all admit our need for Christ daily.<br /><br />Rambling on this Sunday morning. I hope your trip is fantastic!<br /><br />AGain, thanks for your honesty.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-2382554766064290522012-06-17T07:48:52.194-04:002012-06-17T07:48:52.194-04:00comparing is so nasty and it's something we al...comparing is so nasty and it's something we all do.<br />glad you put yourself out there in this post...glad your friend got botox if it's what SHE wanted to do...<br /><br />I'd LOVE it if I suddenly had peace to get botox in my # 11 wrinkle between my eyebrows! But, I don't, so I won't. <br /><br />enjoy your time with your family next week.....do I DARE get on instagram?Between You and Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05020503571549401779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-81556631972753630632012-06-16T21:57:03.404-04:002012-06-16T21:57:03.404-04:00I love all of your heart..
You are SO right..love ...I love all of your heart..<br />You are SO right..love the reminders to not compare.<br />To His glory I have been working on this and it is getting better. <br />I just read in Jesus Calling this morning something similar to this. It is so natural for our flesh to do isn't it?<br />Oh..how excited I am for you to FLY home!! enjoy every sweet moment and I always love your Instagrams;)<br />xoxoTiffinihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00658423323731449505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-5554651368758123022012-06-16T20:22:29.778-04:002012-06-16T20:22:29.778-04:00Are you going to tell us where your friend blogs? ...Are you going to tell us where your friend blogs? My blog isn't much either and I tend to keep it on the DL. It has only been more recently that I have actually put a little effort into connecting with other bloggers, showing more LIFE stuff on the blog, and commenting on blogs with my profile. <br /><br />You are an inspiration though....Funk and all, it has been great to read about the things you do share about your life and how you deal. <br /><br /><br />Have fun on your trip with your girls!Victoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01677058220247385836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-34087093901080769802012-06-16T14:34:16.666-04:002012-06-16T14:34:16.666-04:00YES, good reminder
to not compare, but
to lift up ...YES, good reminder<br />to not compare, but<br />to lift up and celebrate,<br />which is my motto!!!<br /><br />Girlie, please teach<br />me about Instagram<br />so I can get with the<br />program and follow<br />you, too!!<br /><br />So excited for your<br />trip, even though I'm<br />gonna miss you in VA<br />next week!!<br /><br />xo SuzannePrivet and Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09384567378252265965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-38723540089300621582012-06-16T13:53:48.841-04:002012-06-16T13:53:48.841-04:00OH! And your "summer fun" display exude...OH! And your "summer fun" display exudes your sweetness....such a beautiful list. I like to make lists (on any old srap of paper), but I always lose them, and in turn, lose my drive to complete them.<br /><br />I LOVE YOUR CREATIVITY!!!Kelly Cachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08931418625281331698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-24184557910664053222012-06-16T13:48:29.731-04:002012-06-16T13:48:29.731-04:00DANG IT!!! My "bangs" would have to be ...DANG IT!!! My "bangs" would have to be down to my CHIN to hide all my wrinkles---hahaha! But seriously wishing I could go through with a little botox myself :( I always think, 'If I could choose just one thing to fix, it would be my face......even over the cellulite, flat chest, gray hair, & junk in the trunk.' I hate my wrinkles. So therefore, I hate my face. That must make God so sad. I am rejecting His creation :(<br /><br />And I feel kinda sad for your friend....she seems to have such pretty, pretty skin :(<br /><br />That darn vanity!!! It's pure venom.Kelly Cachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08931418625281331698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-21602211373000956362012-06-15T23:19:39.996-04:002012-06-15T23:19:39.996-04:00You said it so well - it is something we all strug...You said it so well - it is something we all struggle with - just got home from a whole talk about that in church - the whispers in our ear are not from God when it is telling us we are not enough! Trying to hear the only Good whispers is always a challenge but something we should all be seeking.<br /><br />Have a great trip! Oh, and I have always told my hairdresser "its bangs or botox baby - and since I am not getting botox - bring on the bangs!"<br /><br />Have fun,<br />LauraFinding Homehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01397566047374439011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-59393181220859993552012-06-15T22:55:19.809-04:002012-06-15T22:55:19.809-04:00Love your blog Becky. I wish that I could write as...Love your blog Becky. I wish that I could write as well as you do....but I can't and I accept that. :) My blog are cool in thier very own way. :) As for growing old gracefullly, I am doing the best that I can. I felt better about it up until I turned 60 when I suddenly got lots of wrinkles. If I had the courage to get some botox shots I would but I am afraid of putting that stuff into my body. So wrinkles it is. I battle with chronic illness and chronic pain which causes me to have depression. Like you I really don't talk about that on my blog. I don't want to bring anyone down.Since I can not take medicine for it I go for walks and do what ever else I can to keep up the front. :) <br /><br />Love the sound of your meatloaf. I would participate in your recipe swap but have not cooked much this week. Hope you have lots of fun with your family next week <br /><br />MaryMaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10103572563333198645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-48416048029291924142012-06-15T22:11:19.289-04:002012-06-15T22:11:19.289-04:00Awww... what a great post. I sure miss you. I ha...Awww... what a great post. I sure miss you. I have to say that I was nodding my head all the way through it. I think I'm starting to come out of MY funk... but it would really help if I could lose 10 lbs on top of that! Sheesh... see? I go down that road... stupid I know. <br /><br />I'm sorry I missed ya today. Thought of you though as I sat and stared at the view... <br /><br />Love youLemonade Makin' Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16404173701815078504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-16719953658144055702012-06-15T21:13:51.921-04:002012-06-15T21:13:51.921-04:00I laughed when I saw the dr. in this photo because...I laughed when I saw the dr. in this photo because I believe he is the same doc that removed my friend's mole. He was a bit smug and cocky and suggested she get botox as he examined her mole. jerky:)<br />I love your posts. And thank you for commenting on my blog a while ago. made my day:) I actually have a "trunk show" at a gallery/shop downtown on July 14th. If you've never been, it's called Quirk. On Broad Street. Anyhow, fun to look around there and I'll be peddling my wares (for the first time ever!!!eeeeek!) on that date. Also, there is a local art show that I thought you might be interested in. My husband used to do art shows so we still run in that circle a bit. Not sure if you want to do a show but holler if you want to know more:) Your stuff is so beautiful!Jaynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02980730872000607679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-89706366178551439452012-06-15T21:08:47.432-04:002012-06-15T21:08:47.432-04:00So needed to hear your little "don't comp...So needed to hear your little "don't compare myself" talk regarding blogging. Just got over a long disappearing act from my blog because I felt so ugh...whatever. Anyway I have been feeling better about it, hence the reason I'm stopping by :) Have a wonderful vacay. Love your blog so much and you too even though I don't know you! You are such a blogging inspiration.Valerie@chateaualamode.typepad.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07476769857682946484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-41752237174721994452012-06-15T20:41:03.030-04:002012-06-15T20:41:03.030-04:00Ouch! Botox! But, I must confess I get Radiesse i...Ouch! Botox! But, I must confess I get Radiesse injections and that's not the most comfortable procedure either. Thinking the best think to do is just embrace aging and "call it good." :o) And, not compare ourselves to anyone else. We are unique in design by God's hands. How much better could it be. <br /><br />Great post!Lea @ CiCis Cornerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09252011706208068724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3812834706420893840.post-47317014636801181162012-06-15T20:40:59.388-04:002012-06-15T20:40:59.388-04:00Ouch! Botox! But, I must confess I get Radiesse i...Ouch! Botox! But, I must confess I get Radiesse injections and that's not the most comfortable procedure either. Thinking the best think to do is just embrace aging and "call it good." :o) And, not compare ourselves to anyone else. We are unique in design by God's hands. How much better could it be. <br /><br />Great post!Lea @ CiCis Cornerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09252011706208068724noreply@blogger.com