See the gorgeous girl in the black head band?? That is Melody Ross. She and her sister Kathy were the master minds behind Brave Girl Camp. I can honestly say I have never met a more creative person in my life. It just oozes from her.
Melody had projects for us to work on every day. This compilation of wood, sticks, cardboard and foam became this...


I love that I can change what the bird says to suit my mood and what I need to focus on. Everyone's bird was unique. What a fun, messy... cool project to do. I love my bird:) It reminds me to spread my wings and soar!!

Here we are in the middle of our soul searching...beautiful music was playing, laughter echoed in the tent, paper scraps and Modge Podge glue fumes filled the air. It was magical! We were given several different projects and it all related to positive self talk. For instance we made a scrapbook with word promises to ourselves.

Here's a collage of mine. You can't read the words, but they are all promises to myself. For instance... "I promise to surround myself with people who love me unconditionally. I promise to be led by peace."

Then we made a tin filled with cards that were words that someone very special might say over us.

This one is blurry, but it says "Dear Becky...You are becoming who you were always meant to become dear girl."
This card says "Dear Becky...In all the world, there is not a girl who is exactly like you - there never has been, there never will be." What wonderful words to hear over your life. It was beautiful. When I first got the page of quotes my heart could hardly stand it. I sat there crying and couldn't stop even though I wanted to. It was just such an awesome exercise...to read words that God or your mom or husband might whisper over you. Words that are easier to believe when it's someone else saying them.

This is Melody's art. I really wanted to show it to you because it's simply beautiful and meaningful and it's just ME to a tee. Her art didn't just speak to me...it SCREAMED my name. Every piece she makes has a story behind it. Don't ya just love it??
The second we first entered the cabin this house collage spoke to me from across the room. I loved everything about it. She made this house as a reminder to herself. For a while she went through some very hard struggles and had some people in her "house" that were unhealthy, destructive, selfish etc...
When you meet her you can tell she loves everyone. She wasn't very good at setting limitations. She referred to that old house as a crack house. This new house has boundaries. The outer yard, inner yard, porch and finally the inside. If you look close you can see her inner yard says "stay, honor, fiercely protect". She keeps certain people far away from her house...I think she said Starbucks. Then others she lets into the outer yard and then only extremely special people are allowed on the front porch steps.
Life is demanding. We are pulled in a million different directions daily. I know I struggle with trying to make everyone happy and in the process I lose myself. I lose my focus and I'm just spread too thin. Nothing gets done and I feel like a failure. So I am going to accept this challenge and make a house, set some new rules, and hopeful gain some balance in the process.
My final thoughts about Brave Girl Camp could be summed up by this picture. It's all good. Every woman I met, morsel of food I ate, triumphant story I heard, song I listened to, every minute laughing and crying... it was just good. Thank you Melody, Kathy and all of your wonderful helpers for making last week so special!
Have a blessed day.








What an amazing time of healing through creativity! I love the projects you shared. The little butterfly book you made is gorgeous! I've found that doing art can really heal the areas we find most difficult to vocalize. I can't wait to see how the changes manifest themselves in your life!
ReplyDeletesounds wonderful. what a incredible experience.
ReplyDeletethanks for sharing.
That is so awesome. I wish I could experience something so soul awakening! So special. At least I am able to experience a tiny smiggen through you. I love the art so, so, SO much! Please share how we may be able to create our own in such a manner....pretty please?!?
ReplyDeleteOh Becky, it all sounds like THE most incredible experience, how fantastic, no wonder it has had such a great effect on you.
ReplyDeleteThe artwork above is AMAZING....I LOVE the birds and the collage work with all the words....beautiful. And Melody's work is really good.....wow!
Even listening to you talk about it is inspiring and making me think....thank you Special Girl xoxo
What a special time this was for you, thank you for taking us through your journey. you are a very special person Becky, don't ever forget that...and I love the idea of the house, I think I need to incorporate that into my life..as well!
ReplyDeleteThat was just amazing, thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteYou know I love your art! It is all very special...:)
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Chrissie Grace
What a great experience! I love the bird idea, always remember to soar!
ReplyDeleteHi my friend,
ReplyDeleteI have so enjoyed reading what you, Lissa, and Jeanne have shared about your amazing experience. What an awesome post. I have taken some nuggets of truth from each of you and I am going to rememeber them. Like there's no one else like you in the entire world. Now that's cool. I love the concept of gaurding yourself from those that don't lift you up, but rather be around those that love you unconditionally. So crucial. Your art work is inspiring. Thank you for sharing!
The stuff you did is sooooooo awesome! I love it! Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the glimpse, your bird is adorable.
ReplyDeleteI cannot get enough of hearing about your time away. I love reading what each one of you took away from your experience. Loving your bird ~ too cute for words! The scrapbook is amazing and the theme is perfect. Thank you so much for sharing your memories with us!
ReplyDeleteYour book is so cool...what a wonderful reminder of your experience and all the special things you need to hear. :)
ReplyDeleteReading this post just further convinces me that art is extremely therapeutic and soul-soothing! I am so happy you got to experience that!!! Your work is GORGEOUS!!!
ReplyDeleteI feel so encouraged by your story Becky. I can totally relate to the meaning behind the cottage. It is so easy for us women to get spread thin trying to please everyone. I'm feeling that way these days. What a blessing to read your post - exactly what my heart needed to hear. God bless you abundantly Becky!
ReplyDeleteThat looks like such an amazing time. Just to submerse yourself in be so creative around inspiring women. Fun! Fun!
ReplyDeleteWhat an amazing camp... it is very inspiring! All of the amazing people around you doing great positive things with your time! Thank you for sharing this!
ReplyDeleteSo So So very very INSPIRING!!!!!!!!!Becky, you have so many wonderful shining talents. Your writing is just super duper special. So easy to relate to and so real. And you already know that I love your art. I just can't get enough of hearing about your Brave Girl Camp experience. I tell ya, you have more wonderful and excitng things ahead in your life to come. It's so evident!
ReplyDeleteSmiling with you,
Lee Ann
I love reading about your experiences!! Very fun. Also love the Mod Podge fumes - does my heart good :D
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your Camp experience. It sounds as though all of you had a wonderful time. I loved looking atthe photos of all of you and of all of the beautiful and very creative items that you all did.
ReplyDeleteThanks again.
Mary
Beautiful. I love your art work!
ReplyDeletewoo-hoo! I'm so happy for you. That bird is sooo cool. I love that you can change what it says too. Brave Girl Camp sounds pretty amazing.
ReplyDeleteSounds like such an amazing time!
ReplyDeletewow, i love each of the cards! so beautiful :)
ReplyDeleteWow... Love that art!!! You really had the time of your life girl, didn't you??
ReplyDeletexoxo,
Sash
Wowie.
ReplyDeleteLove your bright colorful bird, and your dear Becky page with the pieced flower. Absolutely gorgeous. :)
Very awesome Becky!!! Your trip just sounds like a total personal retreat!! I am so glad you had such a fantastic time!!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful post! So glad you got to have that experience.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful words, pictures and art. Even though I have little ones to keep me busy from morning to night I may just have to take some time to make some things like this that lift me up. Really loved the birdies!!!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful artwork, beautiful experience, beautiful you:)
ReplyDeleteDear Becky, I love you unconditionally. I know you know this... I miss you guys so much! Maybe your husbands new job will be transferred to my town??? But we will do something again! This thought just came to me. Let's go to Disneyland. Wouldn't that be fun??? Could you handle Jeanne and I??? I don't know..
ReplyDeleteI LOVE YOU!!!!
Wow. I just read through your last three posts and I am feeling like I just want to go create something beautiful! What a wonderful experience! I love the card idea of words that someone might say about us. I think I might just do that with my family.
ReplyDeleteAnd I just might need to look into that camp too!
The artwork is amazing and beautiful! Warms my heart to hear how much the BGC meant to you and the others too. Have a lovely weekend!
ReplyDeleteJanet
So very beautiful...so very inspirational...such a Blessing to read!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing!
Jill
Thanks again. Just. For. Being. You.
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Becky,
ReplyDeleteThis post is like a breath of fresh air. I love seeing all of the things that you worked on. Thanks for sharing your experience!!!
I love these strong, smart women who have put together brave camp..more women need to be like them. I LOVE these precious books you guys put together...such beautiful little reminders of what you have learned! Lessons for a life time!
ReplyDeleteCome say hi :D
I LOVE your bird!!! Thank you so much for sharing your journey at BGC with us. I loved hearing all about it!
ReplyDeleteHave a great weekend!
Adrienne
LOVE them Becky!!! I'm gonna be sad when ya'll run out of BG posts because I am just enjoying them so very much :) Happy weekend sweetie!
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I've been reading your blog for a couple months now, but have never left a comment till today. Your experience with Jeanne and Lissa at BGC sounds so special. I love hearing about all the details! Truly it sounds magical!
ReplyDeleteI love this post because you shared so much of your art and so many pieces from Melody. The house and the story behind it is really my favorite and sooo powerful. Everyone needs to clean house every once in awhile!:-) I really hope that it works out for you to come to CO over Thanksgiving...I can't stand it just thinking about it.
ReplyDeleteThat sounds like such an amazing experience! Wow.
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to see what God is birthing in you!
ReplyDeleteWhat a great time you had! SO happy for you. Glad it was inspiring for you and thanks for sharing the fabulous lessons learned and art created inside and out.
ReplyDeleteI absolutely love her art! What an amazing time...I'm so glad you enjoyed yourself so much :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful experience.I am going to read it all over again. Thanks for sharing....Claire
ReplyDeleteWhat an awesome thing to experience! The house collage really caught my attention - what a great story behind it!
ReplyDeleteManuela
Wow! What an experience! I've never heard of BG before but it sounds so inspirational, restful and what a great time to create. I checked out the website...I wish they had one in Texas.
ReplyDeleteI too love that house collage. I've been "cleaning house" since I moved from Ohio to Kansas, and I think I've done a pretty good job at carving out time for myself.
ReplyDeleteI've also added Brave Girl Camp to my bucket list and truly hope to be able to go there someday! What a wonderful place.
Becky,
ReplyDeleteI have totally enjoyed all of your Brave Girl stories. I think it is really neat that you got to meet Lissa and the other girls IRL!!
You look great in all the photos and your hair is very pretty....you just colored it a few weeks ago right?? Not like that's important to brave girl camp... but I noticed it.
Looks like sooooo much fun!
I wish I could have been there.
Have a great week.
Beth
That is so beautiful...and touching...and special. Wow!!
ReplyDeleteI'm inspired by this post. I can only imagine how fantastic camp was.
ReplyDeleteSo...if I am going to attempt one of these...all I need is a canvas. Some paint? Modge Podge? Do you use scrapbooking paper or fabric? Or both? Hmmm...please do share more! Does anything go?
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